It’s only been 6 weeks since I’ve had a new roommate. 
Before merging households with Isaac, I had been living solo for several years. I liked living alone and was a little anxious about the transition. Much to my pleasure, it has actually been a wonderful change and I’ve grown accustomed to having my Izee Pizee around. And….just when I get used to having a roommate, he decides to leave for a weekend of bachelor partying.
Last night was the first evening on my own and I was reminded of all the “single person behaviors†I used to know and love. Do you remember that episode of Sex and the City? Basically, single person behaviors (SPB) are the routines and habits one has when there are no witnesses.
For example, I made a list of all the things I wanted to accomplish this weekend.
And began by spending the night eating chocolate, drinking wine, and decorating my house without shame or negotiation.
Things are coming along slowly, but surely.
I made a total mess and instead of tidying up before bed, which shows consideration for the person you live with, I left everything as is. And my mess still sits before me at this very moment. 
I should say that Isaac never comments on my food choices or my state of messiness, but I have a self-imposed expectation for how I should behave in the presence of others. I think that is the whole point behind SPB.
The other lovely SPB, which I was anticipating, was sleeping diagonally in bed. Not sure why I sleep like such a freak, but my preference is to sleep with my head in one corner and my feet in the opposite corner. It has taken some adjustment, but I’ve broken the habit and stay to my side of the bed. But last night, I threw the windows open and slept like a diagonal rock! Old habits die hard. 
Another SPB—not speaking a word. It’s nearly 1pm, I awoke at 10am, and not a word has escaped my lips. Not sure how I feel about this, but it is nice to ease into the day without negotiations, discussions, and/or the occasional arguments. Even if I argue with myself, it’s less stressful when it’s silent.
Not sure exactly what the rest of the day holds, but I’m planning to enjoy my alone time even though I’m pathetic and already missing Isaac, intensely. (#codependent) But, Isaac works from home and rarely leaves the house, so it may be a while before this opportunity comes again. I intend to take advantage!
Happy Friday!
What are your single person behaviors? Do you prefer to be alone or are you a people person?
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Hot oil hair treatments and homemade facials. Yep, I’m really original 😉
Ooohhh….I haven’t done a hot oil treatment in forever.
I sleep diagonally too! However, I do NOT accomode to Kevin’s position in the bed. Instead, I put him to good use by using him as my leg prop; I throw my legs over his which supports my back. You should try it!
Lol! I try to throw my legs over Isaac, but he competes and tries to throw his legs over me. It’s not good. So I just avoid the duel and remain on my side. 😉
Haha! Can totally relate to not saying a word.. It gets even worse when you start talking to yourself…
I don’t think I’ve ever been to the “talking to myself” point. But that isn’t saying much. Sometimes my thoughts get so noisy that they may as well be out loud! 😉
I actually can’t wait to have a rommie aka a man to live with, I have done it in short stints and it’s super fun to “play” house!
I’ve never lived with anyone before. So it was a huge change. Good luck with your “roomie” search!
I thought I was the only one out there that slept diagonally! Glad to know I’m not alone!
Diagonal sleeping is where it’s at!! 🙂
lol I love that last one. Not speaking a word. It’s the best part of living alone. But I have found high dosage of ‘not speaking a word’ can be a wee bit depressing. That’s when I call my girls and go out… SATC Style 🙂 If they are too busy, I sometimes end up what Katie has commented above lol… talking to my self! 🙂
Agreed—too much silence gets lonely. I used to talk on the phone much more than I do now.
Love your new curtains and diningroom!
Thanks! me too!!
Hi Nicole! Good luck with the weekend projects. It was so nice to meet you at the 10K this morning. I loved catching sight of your veil! I hope you have a great celebration today!
It was so nice to meet you too! Hanging out with Caitlin is fun because readers are always introducing themselves to her–gives me the opportunity to meet new people too! 🙂
I totally sleep diagonal when I’m alone…it’s actually a habit I developed AFTER getting used to sharing the bed…I don’t know if it’s because I CAN take up all that space (I’m totally defiant like that) or because being in his space makes me miss him less…
Hmmm….interesting point. Considering that I slept diagonally before living with Isaac, it’s safe to say I’m not trying to miss him less. But you may be much sweeter than me! 🙂